As parents, we find ourselves saying “NO!” a LOT. “NO, don’t touch that!”, “NO, don’t go there!”, “NO, don’t DO THAT!”

While setting boundaries is important, did you know that constantly hearing ‘NO’ can actually make your little one more curious, frustrated, or even rebellious?

The Science Behind- Why ‘NO’ Alone Isn’t Good For Your Babies :

Babies and toddlers are natural explorers. Their developing brains are wired to test limits, experiment, and learn through experience. When we repeatedly shut them down with a firm ‘NO,’ they don’t always understand Why are we doing this and it can lead to:

1.)  More tantrums
2.)  More resistance
3.)  Eventually tuning out the word ‘NO’ altogether!

Here’s A Better Approach: GUIDE Instead of BLOCK! Instead of just stopping them in their tracks, try offering an alternative. This way, you acknowledge their curiosity while gently setting boundaries. For example:
🚪 Instead of: “NO, you can’t go outside!”
✅ Try: “Let’s wait for Mom/Dad, and then we’ll go together!”

And Here’s Why This Works:

✔️ Helps babies feel heard & understood
✔️ Teaches them how to follow rules instead of just feeling restricted
✔️ Supports emotional regulation & cognitive development
✔️ Strengthens parent-child communication

So by shifting from a hard NO to a guided YES, you can create a more positive learning environment for your child—one that encourages understanding, patience, and cooperation.

💭 Have you tried this approach? Let me know your experience in the comments! Are you team 🚫 NO or team ✅ GUIDED YES?

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Dr Deepa Aggarwal
Senior Consultant Paediatrician
MD/ DNB Paediatrics & Neonatology
LHMC / AIIMS Delhi
Mayom Hospital, Gurgaon

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